. >> we didn't see the hero thing, but as james dobson would call him a strong willed child and in arkansas, we call it hard headed and he was strong willed and we knew from birth, and he has ray twin sister and he was sister, and he dislocated his shoulder as he was being born. he was, he was very strong willed. >> tough from the beginning. janice, it was a heart break for you as a family when adam who is a good kid and hard headed and in his academic rorted . he got involved in drugs. how did a good kid with a good home and family, how did that happen to him? >> adam loved high school and had a lot of fun. and he had a wonderful group of friends and then after high school he had to go to college. he got in with a bad crowd and it just went down quickly from there. >> he told you about the drugs, he didn't hide it. >> after a while we knew it was going on. and we sat him down and talked to him he was so far gone, by the time. i know parents try to deny that this their good child would do something like that. and he was far gone by the time we realized we had a big problem. >> he ended up i