james van horn says he saw the killer there many times. >> it's not like he just sat there and stared at people. he was an active person that tried to, you know, to find somebody, maybe to go to bed with that night. >> reporter: witnesses have told fbi agents that mateen posted pictures of himself on gay dating apps. and what appears to be the secret life of mateen is now a central focus of the fbi's investigation into the motive behind the terror attack. cord cedeno, who also saw mateen at pulse, says he talked about having a wife and a child. >> i know the struggle of him that his wife and stuff, and his family, didn't know that he was gay, but he's been doing this, coming to these clubs for years and years and years. >> reporter: today, mateen's ex-wife, sitora, told abc news that he told her he often frequented nightclubs without saying they were gay clubs. >> do i think he was gay? >> reporter: she struggled with my question. >> i -- at this point, i think he might have been. maybe wasn't able to be honest about it at all to anybody, because of the family and the culture that he'