right based on jane austen's heroin and how they pursued love.and she points out that jane austen -- were both more practical and more romantic about love, not to mention highly successful at finding chu happiness. so forgive me in advance for jumping from jane austen to my big fat greek wedding, but one of my favorite quotes from that movie captures what i think is a quintessentially jane austen notion and that is when the mom in that movie said to her daughter, my husband is the head, but the wife is the neck. [laughter] you know if i had to sum up what i have learned from conservative authors, female authors and businesswomen, that i have had the privilege to work with over the years, i would probably sum it up like this. this is what they have taught me at least, to value and nurture the relationship you have and if you want others to trust and support you, be trustworthy, be supportive. so as they leave you today and you go back to your jobs and your friends and their families, do this. embrace the success breeds success mindset. help others