. >> reporter: janet mccoy saying it was a crucial line of support, joining the group after losing here to dementia last year. the retired packers quarterback diagnosed with the disease in his 50s. >> a lot of it has to do with what we're dealing with as wives. how to best take care of our husbands. the one thing that i feel strongly about is validate being -- validating a wife's feeling. if doesn't matter if they think they're alone. they're not. >> reporter: for jordan nelson, it's a safe place to ask questions about life in the league. >> last year my husband and i, we went through an agent change. and i was able to private message someone in the group who had been through the same thing. things like that that maybe a regular friend can't relate to, family issues like getting traded, cut, those type of things are things that we discuss. >> reporter: deborah roberts, abc news, new york. >> it is a troubling thing, and it's why many, many wives including tom brady's wife has expressed concern. >> it's great that they have a resource to talk to each other about these things. >>> coming