joining us from san antonio, texas, janine turner in for jeanine pirro. and gretchen carlson. parents getting drunk or stoned in front of their kids not talked about very much. for obvious reasons, what parent is going to say, i just got blasted in front of my kid. no. and the kids aren't going to say anything most of the time because they're ashamed. so this is a problem that is kept very, very quiet. >> i put it in perspective that it has drastic ramifications for the children. number one be, they ends up usually becoming alcoholics. >> bill: statistics show that. >> also they're embarrassed to come forward. but they harbor immense amount of anger, guilt, depression, anxiety, and most importantly, they lose what a parent's job is, to be there at all times. >> bill: they're confused. they love their mom and dad and don't know why they're acting this way and that invokes fear because they don't know how they're going to act when they're stoned or drunk. how do you see it, jeanine? >> i agree completely. i'm 26 years sober myself, so i have a lot of experience with this. it's a