and a few miles away, where the phone rang at jason thompson's house, the news was much worse. the caller was the county coroner. >> he said, jason, your family was in an accident. and he said, i'm sorry to have to tell you this on the phone, but they were just killed. and my whole world just dropped out from underneath me. >> jason's wife, 35-year-old erin thompson, was four months pregnant. her son caden, the boy who just played the drums at his school concert, was just 13. and just like that, they were gone. the crash was head-on. and the school counselor jason thompson's life, the light went out. >> that night, that realization, i'll never forget that news. >> nor, of course, will erin's mother, diana. >> we were both just bonkers, just -- >> or her sister, amber, who with david, her husband, missed erin so much they'd made plans to move to montana to be close. not possible now. >> that was the hardest piece of news we could fathom. >> and to lose both of them and the baby, it just didn't seem like it could be real. >> and here, in the little house he shared with the love of