now, jay is planning a benefit concert, and jay allen joins me now. jay? oh, timing, obviously, for your wedding, but fort myers, this area is close to your heart , as well as to your fiancees heart. talk about what you went through >> yeah, we're actually supposed to get married object 1 so just a couple days ago. we've been going down to fort myers for years. it's our home away from home. we started going to island hop per fest performing a couple years back and fell in love with the area so when my mother passed away, a lady stepped up and filled that role of mom for me and they actually own the wedding venue that we were supposed to get married at but it's completely gone, so instead of planning for a wedding, now we're planning for a relief concert here in nashville, hopefully we can send a lot of money back down there to our home away from home and help out >> cheryl: well certainly and not just personal for you but really personal for your fiancee apparently, she lost her home in a tornado when she was 17 so she knows firsthand what it feels like to