and notice jeanne tan, the wife, was clearly rattled.of rochester's democrat and chronicle newspaper. >> they found the gene was still upset. she had some red marks on her mark. but there was not enough there to charge jim tan with a crime. >> so, incident. over >> that night. yes >> he tried to killer but nothing results in terms of charges or makes it into the paperwork. >> correct. >> a history of abuse it appears. if that were the case, charlie had told no one in his circle at cornell university. upon campus, coach colin had not heard from charlie in days. and now his phone rang. >> campus police called me up and asked me to come to his house which i did. they wanted me to know that charlie's father had been killed. >> it was rugged, we have a bunch of players in the fraternity. and everybody was obviously very upset. >> charlie admitted that he shot his father to death. >> i think it was probably disbelief more than shock, that this occurred. >> we had a team meeting about it. but immediately after, there was so much support for him