chris harrison told jennifer per perrow, is h he's totally the guy that you want your daughter the bring home. >> only you got to think the parents will love ben, he's so nice, but etched in our memory >> it's called a mednick. it's called a mednick for a reason. so that's got to be number one. >> quick recap, jason picked marisa marisa rycroft, but then h dumped her and picked molly whom he's still married to. >> i also knew he wanted to have a chance to at least talk to molly. so we thought why not sit them down and let them speak. >> are you still in love with molly? >> yeah. >> i'm so disgusted with you. >> the breakup just exploded. >> you have the stop interrupt >> some word got out th jake had looked violent or made a fist, so we said now we have to air it because everybody is going to t talk about this and thinks we're hiding something. >> it was a lot. a lot. >> well, mean he gave them a lot of reasons to. >> so don't expect ben to make this list. >> he was such a pleasure to be around, to work for the ruff. >> he's a nice guy, not the bad boy. >> ministerore realitydrama, remem