. >> cbs news business analyst, jill schlessinger, the problem we avoid talking about money, joins usill, good morning. >> good morning. >> so jill i understand nearly half of the respondent in the survey think their partner is dishonest about money. so how can we break that psych snell. >> well, you know, many relationships are actually unions of money opposites. we find savers, will hook up with the spender. money vigilante paired with a money avoid err. but that's why it is important to set aside a specific time and place to talk, but you want to do so with groundrules , no judgement, just open dialogue, hear your information, make sure on the same page with report to short and long-term goals like retirement, college planning and cash flow management. >> in the meantime, jill, how should couples divide financial responsibilities in the here and now? >> it is never going to be 50- 50. just know that. but you do want to work toward each partner's strength. so if one of you likes to track money, let her be the day-to-day bill payerment if the other one wants to manage investment, tha