jim andicle k- jilll kelly join me now. and many marriages end because of the death of a child and many others because of infell delity within the marriage. you guys had beaten all of the odds because you are still together. i want you to talk about how you are able to make that work. >> for me first, it was early on because i know after i retired from the nfl, two weeks later on valentino's day our son was born, hunter and to have a son born on dad's's birthday. i dreamed of all of the great things that fathers and sons do and from that point on, after we had difficulties, he was diagnosed and we pretty much after that point almost went in separate directions. i retired and went to work with numbers and espn and on the road a lot and jill was at home not only with our oldest daughter, but also our son hunter who was suffering from a disease . throughout the whole process of his eight and half years of life, not only did jill keep a journal, but we handled it totally different as men and women do. i was on the road . things