let's bring in jim kavanaugh, he is a former atf special agent in charge, and nbc news terror analystabout what police are likely doing right now, how do you negotiate with someone who has allegedly killed three people and knows they are going to have to face the consequences for that? how do you talk to someone like that? >> well, you treat them with respect, reverend al. you try to make the human connection with them, build trust, you know, we call it attunement. try to calm him down, so he can make a reasoned decision to save his life, and not kill himself, or charge out and be shot by the police. it just takes some listening skills. it takes some classic negotiation techniques. but, in any essence, it is humanity, and this guy is all alone. he basically wiped out his family today. she is barricaded, he knows he is wanted for murder, he doesn't have anybody. so, the negotiator has to be that somebody that can be his lifeline for a future life. many people, even in such dire circumstances, still get talked out. so, you never give up. i think they are trying to do that, but it is goi