jim. >> i remember her being like, "oh, your uncle. oh." >> reporter: the melgars' life revolved around not just family, but church, too. they'd joined the jehovah's witnesses early in their relationship, but by her early 20s, daughter lizz had left the church. newly independent, she rushed into a marriage. a bad one. >> true that he was involved in heavy drugs? >> yes. >> that was the end of it? >> that was it. i didn't want to live that kind of life. >> reporter: but her parents' marriage just kept going through sickness and health. in fact, in recent years, jaime was looking younger than ever on a vegetarian diet and exercise regimen. >> he realized he was getting older and he just wanted to make sure he was in the best physical shape. >> your mom. your poor -- >> mom. meanwhile had a constellation of health problems, didn't she? >> yes. >> lupus? chemotherapy involved in that? >> at times, yeah. she also had epilepsy. >> did she have the seizures? did you ever see her -- >> yes. yeah, she did. >> reporter: then december 2012 rolled around. their 32nd wedding an