he was always coming from ju jit su.o thin, was there a problem? >> he was always thin, but it was rock hard muscle. he was slammed to the ground by black belts everyday. >> he loved it. >> he loved it. he didn't really care who he was sitting next to. he genuinely was interested in other peoples' stories >> that is the amazing thing. o one of the e-mails today was from a woman who sat next to him at a dinner party and she had watched him during the evening. and it didn't matter who he was talking to. he approached you, the same way he approached obama. he gave everything he had to that conversation. >> i don't use the term cool very often. but one of the coolest guys i have ever met. >> definitely one of the coolest and one of the shyest. >> thank you, very much. more on anthony bourdain in just a minute. and from his girlfriend. and first from widow of chester. and how to deal with the sudden loss of a loved one. join t-mobile. and get netflix included for the whole family. so you can get lost in space in your own back