>> yes. >> jiya is kind of the alpha dog, too. >> yeah.? >> i think self-admittedly would say he is somebody who gets fulfillment out of being in service. doing things for people. >> as we said, this gets complicated. tonight jiya and ian are setting out for their weekly date. >> we're going to go get some food. >> can i come with you? >> you're going to stay here and watch the movie. >> thanks for watching him. >> while jon doesn't seem too happy about it -- >> thank you. >> it allows jimpb iya and ian some time alone. and at the end of the evening, some real intimacy. what are some of the common misconceptions about your relationship? >> this is not a committed relationship. sometimes we're more committed than others. >> when we visited, little amon seemed like a happy, well adjusted young boy. what they do wonder how all of this will affect their son. >> unfortunately, sometimes people are cruel and not always loving. >> this is a train. >> what is the modern family today in. >> we've got step moms, step dads, gay parents raising childr