joan allen it is devastating --joan: it is devastating, the one of the worst things that can happen,se a child and just not know. when i came in and did some rehearsal -- the room was -- the film was shot sequentially. jake with lenny and with because we did not want jake to get too familiar with me, which was wise. the room was being built on a stage and i made a choice not to look at it. joan wanted to really look at it, but the mother would never know where her daughter was, and what horrible -- what a horrible thing that is, so that was a very -- charlie: because it would somehow make the fear different if you knew what it was like? because just the imagining of what it could be -- you know, i mean, she is probably imagining it been a lot worse than it even was. i did not want to see that either. you know? i just want to have that, you know, sort of, blank slate. charlie: let's take a look at this. this is where -- you are trying to explain to jack there is more to life than the world that he sees. here it is. >> do you remember how -- do you remember how alice was not always in