. >> my name is brett biro and i'm john wayne bobbitt's brother. s actually my cousin, but my parents took him in at a young age. so if you were to ask me again, who is john? john is my brother. that's the way we were raised. >> your uncle and your aunt took you in. how would you describe your childhood? >> big family. a lot of get-togethers. we went to church every sunday. >> was there love in your home? >> yeah, a lot of love. yeah. a lot of fighting. but i was always the one to break it up. you know? i was the peacemaker. >> what made you decide to want to become a marine? >> my friends joinedhe marines. and i said, oh, i'll join. something i wanted to do. >> and it was at a singles dance that you met lorena? >> yeah. marine corps ball. fancy uniforms and it was at a marine corps officers' club. >> lorena bobbitt is born in ecuador. she is raised in venezuela. she becomes besotted with america, the america you see on kind of television and our movies. >> i remember she said she watched "the flintstones" in venezuela and even the flintstones had a