what do you think you want to put in a letter, if you're writing to johnny who's away in europe fighting against the germans, what do you want to put in your letter as you're writing from home? what would you put in there? >> don't worry about how things are going here, focus on getting the job done. >> right, right. don't worry about how things are, focus on getting the job done. go do your thing, we're good here. you have to realize they want you to write multiple letters a week. if you can write daily, that's best. imagine your soldiers going to get mail every day and if there's nothing there, how depressing that is. oh, i have to go fight my war and nobody at home cares about me. that's the guilt, right? the pressure is to write every day, three days a week, four, five days a week at a minimum. you write that once. and then what do you write? what else do you do? >> we miss you. >> we miss you, please comb home, right? but you can't do too much of that, or it will make him too sad. >> a cheerful story, but focus on the war. >> right, a fun story. a piece of advice that gorman puts in her book is make yo