what i discovered in writing this book is that joseph p. kennedywas a remarkable and extraordinary father. when he was in london, separated from his children, he wrote each of them letters. he wrote nine separate letters. he knew what each child was doing. he knew that eunice were 200 school and was too skinny. he knew that rosemary, at the time, was slowing needed encouragement and to watch away. he knew that jack was too sloppy and careless spent too much money. he knew that joe work too hard. the kids loved him and they loved him. it was his greatest accomplishment. at the bay of pigs, which was, jack and he believed was the end of his presidency, it was a disaster. it was a political disaster and a personal disaster. because kennedy felt responsible for every soldier who was either killed or taken hostage, and he felt responsible for each of the individuals. and he also felt that his political life was over, as did his brother, bobby. when jack was so low, his wife reported that he was crying, sobbing. bobby said, let's call dad, he'll make us