julie lythcott-haims is the author of "how to raise an adult" julie lythcott-haims / how to raise an adult author 01:21:19;07 // a 24- 7 surveillance of your kid's every whereabouts, every decision, every moment is effectively saying, "i do not trust yu tj holmes 12:23:49 : how do you tell them you trust them when you spy on them? christine : wow 2:24:31 i hope they know i do trust them, but i am doing this to protect them. using the app, christine discovers isabella is texting someone she thinks is a teenager. but when christine calls the number, she gets a surprise. it's an adult christine: 122706 she thought she was talking to a friend. and it turned out it wasn't. christine blocked the caller. still it was a scary moment. 12:37:38 i went through every scenario. meeting somebody. kidnapping. christine knew she had to confront her daughter which meant confessing about the spyware ... but isabella came clean first christine: 12:46:48;14 she came down the stairs and was like, "i need to talk to you." tj holmes: 12:47:10;04 she beat you to it. christine: 12:47:11;12 she beat me to it.

julie lythcott-haims is the author of "how to raise an adult" julie lythcott-haims / how to raise an adult author 01:21:19;07 // a 24- 7 surveillance of your kid's every whereabouts, every decision, every moment is effectively saying, "i do not trust you in the slightest. tj holmes 12:23:49 tell them you trust them when you spy on them? christine : wow 2:24:31 i hope they know i do trust them, but i am doing this to protect them. using the app, christine discovers isabella is texting someone she thinks is a teenager. but when christine calls the number, she gets a surprise. it's an adult christine: 122706 she thought she was talking to a friend. and it turned out it wasn't. christine blocked the caller. still it was a scary moment. yes. very. 12:37:38 i went through every kidnapping. christine knew she had to confront her daughter which meant confessing about the spyware ... but isabella came clean first christine: 12:46:48;14 she came down the stairs and was like, "i need to talk to you." beat me to it. she beat me to it-- isabella told her mom about the stranger she was texting - a

julie lythcott-haims is author of "how to raise an adult." >> every moment is effectively saying, i do not trust you in the slightest. >> how do you tell them you trust them when you spy on them? >> wow, i hope they just know that i do trust them and that i'm doing this just to protect them. >> reporter: using the app christine discovers isabella is texting someone she thinks is a teenager. but when christine calls the number, she gets a surprise. it's an adult. >> she thought she was talking to a friend and it turned out that it wasn't. >> reporter: christine blocked the caller. still it was a scary moment. >> went through every scenario. meeting somebody. kidnapping. >> reporter: christine knew she had to confront her daughter which meant confessing about the spyware but isabella came clean first. >> she came down the stairs and >> she beat you to it. >> she beat me to it. >> isabella told her about the stranger she was texting and while shocked she was spying also saw the other side. >> i had a lot of different emotions like why is she doing this but was happy because i knew she was