we were able to identify her as julie winningham. >> then this is julie with my son joshua.ue eyes. weighed about 98 pounds and adorable. always wore her hair very short, did not like long hair. always wore hoop earrings. she was just cute. yeah. wasn't she beautiful? she truly was. she was beautiful inside as well as outside. and that's how i remember her. she was a free spirit, and she would go here, there, and she would go to work at a place and wouldn't work for very long because she would always go out on the road. but you know, she would pop in and pop out, and over the years she was that type of person. >> but melissa says the last time she saw julie, they had this really big blow-out fight about julie's partying and her drinking, and then she never saw her again. >> i told her to get out, and then she went back out on the road. i knew we would make up, because you can't be friends for 20 years and not make up. so i felt very guilty for a number of years, because i feel that if i hadn't had that fight with her, she would never have left town and she might be alive tod