story with your mother reminded me of one very interesting love story, which is described in our kama sutrang man and the girl were very fond of each other and were waiting for permission to marry before the wedding. they are not natural. and so they got married never got married, according to the tradition of this place in india, there is such a tradition that the first wedding night, and the young spend in their parents' houses when it is already possible, but they must equally endure. well, after that they dispersed to the houses of their parents. and, of course, having waited for the sunrise, they ran towards each other, but when they came running , it turned out that between their villages, the ganges flowed a great great river without beginning and end, which could not be overcome. i haven't lived my whole life just looking at each other from different shores. yes, there is a similarity in this and there is a way out in this, because you and your mother are like two very prickly, hedgehogs, which, if put in one box, they they will definitely stab each other. you need a distance. you n