and i said that one night lynne cheney and condi rice and karen hughes, who i think is here and i hadone to chippendales and i wouldn't even have mentioned it except sandra day o'connor and justice ginsburg saw us there. but, you know, that sort of humor doesn't really translate to most countries, because most countries you can't roast the president like that. and so for a year after that, at least, on foreign travel, heads of state, when we were somewhere else, would take me aside and say, are you really a desperate housewife? >> humor is such an important thing. >> those things sometimes backfire. i can't remember which dinner, but there's a white tie there -- >> the gridiron. >> the gridiron. >> where they take themselves, pardon me, so seriously, you press. but, anyway, i decided it was on april 1st. i decided ah-ha, so i worked with my hairdresser. and i wore a red wig and came out in my evening dress. and george says you're not going like that, are you? i said, yeah, i am. so we went to the dinner. some people thought i had cancer. and some people said, who is that woman with th