[captioning performed by the national captioning institute, ♪ from the katharine hepburn cultural arts centersaybrook, connecticut, it's the kate. i'm mary lambert. i'm a singer-songwriter and spoken word artist and activist and writer. ♪ i'm a million miles away from anywhere. ♪ i grew up in an abusive home and for me songwriting was immediately just something that i clung to around seven or eight. it was an outlet of it's okay to have sad feelings, to have, you know, anger, to have depression, wherever you're at. love your body the way your mother loved your baby feet, and brother, arm wrapping shoulders; remember, this is important-you are worth more than a waistline. i get asked a lot in certain situations of like, you know, were you ever bullied for being gay?