. >> miami - dade state attorney, katherine fernandez rundle, had to sign off, and she did so without tolerated anywhere in the system, even if it's understandable and somebody might have some sympathy. >> there's a kind of a push in that direction, isn't there? you ought to be able to act out in your own defense? >> sometimes revenge is just an excuse, but it's a lousy excuse to kill somebody. you cannot do it. you will be held accountable. >> and the state of florida did hold cindy accountable. just before christmas, 2010, she was charged with first degree murder. >> coming up -- there was a dead man, an apparent confession and a motive. but under florida law, was it murder? >> and it was at that point in time that you shot him to protect yourself? >> yes, i did. i was in fear for my life. in my mind, he was there to kill me. >> when "dateline" continues. firefighter maggie gronewald knows how to handle dry weather... ...and dry, cracked skin. new gold bond advanced healing ointment. restore healthy skin, with no sticky feeling. gold bond. champion your skin. ♪ ♪ cases of anxiety in