. >> reporter: kathy carpenter was that teller. and one day seven years ago, out of the blue, nancy asked her to lunch. kathy accepted. and learned first hand another of nancy's hallmark traits. >> she was sometimes brutally honest. >> reporter: no edit button? >> no edit button. i like that, yes. no edit button. she actually, when i first met her, told me that i was very fat. >> reporter: what a thing to say to somebody when you first meet them though. hi, be my friend. you're fat. >> yeah. well, you're fat. you know, you're beautiful. but you're fat." >> reporter: so she was blunt, undiplomatic, but irresistable. by the time lunch was over nancy and kathy were fast friends. just how nancy was. like when she made plans to leave town for the winter she decided to rent her house to a retired doctor and his heart cult horticulturalist wife. total strangers whom she befriended in a heartbeat actually invited them to move in a month early. and so she, dr. trey styler, and his wife who also happened to be named nancy, they all lived toge