kathy siegrist's husband and a.b.e often would come home and say what a horrible temper he had. >> really? the reverend a.b. schirmer? >> he said he would kick the aisle where the balls come back if he bowled badly. >> reporter: and it wasn't just the reverend's supposed flashes of temper at the bowling alley that caught the eyes of a.b.'s buddies. kathy says his constant flirting with women slowed the game down. >> when it was his turn to bowl, he wasn't there, and they'd have to wait around. that would make the guys upset because it made them later to go home. >> so the men had a different perspective on a.b.? >> yes. well, my father too was there, and he would say, "things are fishy. something doesn't feel right." >> referring to what, as you look back, kathy? >> with a.b. and they'd see him with more than one woman there. that was fishy. >> reporter: and even at church kathy noticed a.b. seemed overly attentive to female members of the congregation. in the months leading up to jewel's death, she said there was one