kathy siegrist's husband and a.b. were bowling buddies. >> he often would come home and say what a horrible temper he had. >> really? the reverend a.b. schirmer? >> he e id he would kick the aisle where the balls come back if he bowled badly. >> reporter: and it wasn't just the reverend's supposed flashes of temper at the bowling alley that c cght the eyes of a.b.'s buddies. kathy says his constant flirting with women slowed the game down. >> when it was his turn to bowl, he wasn't there, and they'd have to wait around. that would make the guys upset because it made them later to go home. >> so the men had a different perspective on a.b.? >> yes. well, my father too was there, and he would say, "things are fishy. something doesn't feel right." >> referring to what, as you look back, kathy? >> with a.b. and they'd see him with more than one w wan there. that was fishy. >> reporter: and even at church kathy noticecea.b. seemed overly attentive to female members of the congregation. in the months leading up to jewel's de