kelly carlson joins me now. kelly, welcome aboard.on and being with me. >> thank you, tammy so good to finally talk to you, too. >> tammy: i'm always on your instagram. we message each other. our lives continue to move forward but you know what our topic really is? our theme is today and i thought immediately of you. this is about maintaining control of our lives, right? not being pushed into arenas we don't want to be in. not being brain washed. making changes when needed. i see all the time your fans asking, well, why aren't you acting anymore? what are you doing? your instagram, your biosays former actress of tv and film and now navy wife. tell us all about that. what is going on with you? >> well, just that. i did leave los angeles in 2015 because my husband, dan is based on coronado. we needed to be closer. my business model in life is -- it sounds great. let's go do it! really, you know, that's about it. and so i was really excited about being a military wife. completely different from anything in my life i've ever experienced a