. >> kemme spends her days now doing outreach in cincinnati's latino community.s her new role as a gift. >> at the end of the day, there is such a deep sense of joy. not like happiness, like i ate ice cream happy. but a sense of abiding joy that lasts. >> some might argue you can still have the things that you have to give up without having >> yeah. i have a lot of people ask me that. and that was a question i discerned for myself. i think i would compare it to someone who feels very, very incredibly called to be a mother. and someone could say to them well you don't have to have your own kids, you could become a babysitter, have kids over to your house all the time. you could have this as a part of your life. this number one was the only way it felt like fluff. my number 1 relationship and commitment in life is with god and the congregation. >> for kemme's parents who once saw their daughter play maria, a woman who considered becoming a nun, in a musical, growing accustomed to her new life is an welcome. >> are you happy she made the decision she did? >> answer