thanksgiving will be ken andar abel's first without everyone. but they have each other. >> she's brought me in her pillows and stuffed animals, saying, i thought these would bring her comfort, daddy. >> reporter: while they decided to stay in the area, the one place they won't return to is here, on drop forge lane, where they lost so much. a lot has changed in the last year after the house was torn down. ken recently made the hard decision to rebuild and sell their house. >> it's a place i could never move back to. even if the house is laid out different, the yard, the area would have too many memories for me. >> reporter: as for work, ken left his job with a cleaning service so he could be with arabelle more. while home he's had time to go through the home that was sav e savaged on that day. >> it's heart warming to see my son like that. i don't want to forget. i want their memories to stay with me. that's all i have left of them. >> reporter: from member mentos and photographs, to his daughter's smile. >> she's always kind to other people. mar