. >> kerry cavanaugh has the story of one family turning their grief into something else. >> chris coffmanted in the army reserves two days before the age cutoff. lynn coffman said her brother was a pragmatic about his choice. >> i said, what if you don't come back? he said, i have had a great life. i'm ok with that. he was at peace somewhere in his heart. >> two weeks into his tour, he took on a difficult mission. >> one soldier in particular, my brother took his place because he had two little children, a boy and a girl. my brother said, i will go and you stay back. he knew it was dangerous. >> he and two other men were killed. as honors poured in for coffman, his family debated the best way person they new. >> that is something that he has taught me, to follow your dreams and your passions and be confident in the decisions you make and do what you love and have a good time doing it and be confident. >> that gave rise to the christopher coffman memorial fund. >> you have to have help, whether it be physical, emotional, career change, or career-reentry into civilian life. they really are