joining us, freelance writer jennifer wallace, ceo of divamoms.com, liz stern and thomas kersey.t test? jennifer? >> i agree, i don't know what's next, truth serum? it's absurd. in all seriousness, if you were that worried your child is lie, that's wake-up call you need to have more direct, one-on-one conversations. >> thomas, you've probably dealt with a lot of lying kid in your time i'm sure having worked at schools and dealing with that. is this the right answer, a lie-detector test? >> my daughter told me she had one -- two milk duds and i checked, said she only had one. >> get out the lie-detector test. >> i don't think it sends a good message as parent to our kids. we want trust. you can't force a kid to be honest and trustworthy. they need to lie and we need to discuss with them and teach them how to be truthful. >> is this good, liz? >> i'm absolutely against it. it won't happen in my home. it's really important to have communication with your children. yes, your children is r going to lie. but you need to have that open communication with them so they know if they lie we