the shooter was identified as 41-year-old kevin connover and the intended victim as 43-year- old kim connover. the divorce attorney was secured at the scene and had nothing to do with the shooting and is cooperating with the witness. the couple was going through a divorce and this woman said kevin wasn't handling it well. >> i lived in pet plume a my whole life. we -- petaluma my whole life. we used to go play pool and hang out. really concerned about the kids. that's really who suffers in all of this is it's really never about us. it always turns out to be about the kids. >> reporter: kevin connover was declared dead from a self- inflicted gunshot wound. at last report kim connover was in critical condition. >>> san jose police have not released the names of a man and woman who died yesterday in an apparent murder suicide. the man shot the woman and then himself in the parking lot of a shopping center on east capital expressway. their toddler daughter was in a safety seat in a nearby car at the time of the shooting and tonight is in the custody of child protective services. police h