it's only days later khatelyn says they both realize he's may have just destroyed one.action when he realized that it was tammy? >> nauseating remorse. like, he could not understand how it happened. how did it go from, "i was terrified and these are some punk kids looking for me," to the life of a mother? >> reporter: he saves his biggest surprise for last, telling police meyers is not only of his neighbors, he knows her, has eaten dinner at her table. >> so you know the family. >> i know the whole family, man. >> is there anything you want me to tell the family? >> my intentions were to take someone who was going to harm my family out. not a family's mom. not tammy. >> reporter: the stunning relationship is confirmed for the first time when bob meyers later addresses the press. >> we knew how bad he was but we didn't know he was this bad. >> reporter: meyers claiming his wife had mentored the troubled youth. >> my wife spent countless hours at that park consoling this boy. she was really good to him. she fed him, she gave him money, she told him to pull his pants up. >