but the door can close real quick and real hard if you don't have something to, and speaking of kirk douglasichael douglas, i've had conversations with michael, you know, we're friends and we've done a couple movies together. and you can count on one hand the people whose parents achieve at a very high level whose children also achieved. and, you know, kirk and michael, i mean, the fondas, i mean, you know, it's not that many. you know, it's a very small club. so it's tremendously difficult to, to maintain or to be able to achieve. >> i feel very lucky, because we, i have three children. i said my wife raised three great children. and one great husband. >> mm-hm. >> and it's true, because i was eight years old, she was eight years older than i. and when i was 20, she was 28. it only worked for 65 years, but the three children, him being one of them. lucas reiner is a world-renowned painter, my daughter who is a doctor of psychiatry, written books on analysis, she's going through the world giving lectures. that's the only thing that matters in this world, what you send out to the world in chi