one that is paralyzed said yes, one that lost both his kissling said yes. iwas the most meaningful year in their lives, the most adrenalized period but they also formed the greatest connections of their lives. they are still brothers, friends, confidantes. they can hardly live without each other nowadays. while we as noncombatants often focus too much, sometimes all of our attention on the bad side of the war, what thes but these gun remember most is the good side, the friendships they had come at the friendships they lost, the laughter they shared, the jokes they played on each other, and they played a lot of jokes on each other. the good times for some of them, for most of them out of outnumbered the bad times. these were men with dreams and hopes like everyone else that when the country said to do something they went and did it and that was really difficult. they are 70-years-old now and the difficult thing they did, maybe the most important thing they did was one year out of their lives. they are now grandparents, great grandparents, leaders of business