kolman's car was parked here. and mrs. kolman's car was parked here. mrs. kolman was on the side. she was very distraught. >> did you attempt to resuscitate him -- >> we did not. >> after my ex -- quick examination, i could tell that there was nothing that -- nothing that we could do. he had been deceased for a while. >> the paramedics, they just stood there. and i was, like, "what are you doin'? like, help him. just get in the car and help him." like, and they just stood there. they were, like, "no." and i was -- i just was, like, shocked, like, can you just try, you know the one just said, "no, he-- he's gone." and he did, he just felt so cold. >> did you just feel like this is so unfair? >> yeah, i just -- i just was, like, "oh my god, this can't be happenin' now. you can't leave us now." >> reporter: shortly after tom's friend, gil, called linda, and rushed to the scene. that's him in this dashcam video -- off to the right, collapsing in grief as he learns the news. meanwhile, first responders and arriving officers processed the scene. >> anything unusual about his body? or di