you wrong with kristen lombardi. caller: -- you are on with kristen the party.aller: -- kristen lombardi. don't report it. but about 80% of sexual assaults , the perpetrator and the victim know each other one way or the other. i have been assaulted twice in my life, once at 20 years old by a total stranger, very brutal in the late 70's, and then about 15 years ago, by a friend, someone who would never expressed the slightest romantic or sexual interest in me. and i did not go to the police, primarily because he and i were both well known in our community, and i didn't want my reputation ruined. i think that people need to understand that sometimes there is this obsession that women lie. but the fact is, most of the time, that is not the case. i warned other women the new him and said he is homeless sometimes, and you may want to let him sleep on your couch, but unless you want to have sex with him, i advise you not do it. is, it got out, my reputation was very much destroyed in my community. i was called a liar and a racist, it was awful. when people say why did