husband found time to visit troops and wounded warriors now you no longer do first lady duty are used la palma to support the troops? god bless you. semper fi. [applause] >>guest: that is so sweet. thank you. we did visit the london warriors here at walter reed and brooke army medical center where the burn patients are in san antonio often. whenever we could then of course, we meant with the fallen at all different times i remember especially during the 2004 campaign we would go to a big event then afterwards we would go backstage to the other room and meat with the family is that have fallen from that part of the country where we were. that is a grief that is very, very difficult to share or to see with each family. what i always saw was how the families of people who died both in september 11 and those we met with after the terrorist attacks than after that, how they wanted you to know about their loved one how they lost and they wanted to tell a story. one sister of someone who had died had written a story that she read to george and me about her brother and their rice something so moving a