. >> reporter: still, when dar's sisters, ladonna, lynn, and marla, learned that dar and tom intended to marry, they were left scratching their heads. >> my famous saying was, there's got to be something wrong with tom for him to stay with dar. >> reporter: 'cause you couldn't do it? >> no. >> reporter: you couldn't be around somebody who was, what, that much the center of attention? >> and telling you what to do. >> reporter: and that controlling? >> dar was not a domesticated person either. >> reporter: the foleys were married in 1994, and right from the start, dar took the lead. fair to say that she wore the pants in that house? >> i'd a probably 75%, 80% of the time she d. >> she was the breadwinner? >> yes. >> you stayed home and took care of your son? >> i did. >> reporter: heath was tom and dar's only child and the center of their lives. >> and we just loved being together. we were always together. >> reporter: and so the three foleys lived on the outskirts of coldwater in an old farmhouse they called "the heath bar farm." a picture-perfect family until that winter day back in

the fire started shortly after noon near mount ladonna county park.hat's a rural area near gilroy. thatter are no fire hydrants there. fire crews had to us too water that was trucked in. one woman says she found out about the fire when a worried neighbor came to the front door. >> she said your neighbor's house is on fire. i said oh, my god. you are id canning. i went out to look and i saw flames shooting up 6 feet from the garage. no one was hurt. >> smoky skies are expected to subside. you heard steve paulson. yesterday was the second spare- the-air day but there's no alert in effect today. the winds have been pushing smoke from the wildfire down to us the in the bay area. that combined with temperatures of 100 degrees is drugs for breathing problems -- is dangerous for breathing problems. >>> planes used to fight fires in california, they were grounded yesterday. calfire says a propeller on one of the planes failed while the plane was on the ground in southern california. so far, six of the 15 planes have been checked by mechanics and they have bee