shele's divorce attorney lance meyer. lance meyer: he would belittle her. he would yell at her.l her ugly. he would make fun of her looks. so he was a demeaning person. he would go low. andrea canning: so low, in fact, that at one point during their divorce, rod tried to undermine her at work. he called her company to report that shele was on drugs, unstable, and depleting their joint bank account. he was trying to get her to lose her job. and it was obviously-- she worked in a family operation within ubs. so it was a very serious thing. he was trying to hurt her and her family. andrea canning: the company determined shele was drug free and found that rod was taking much more money from their account than she was. the divorce got uglier. the two squabbled over child support. at one point, a judge told rod he could no longer play backgammon, something he blamed on shele. he was beyond angry. she was taking away the thing he apparently cared about the most. andrea canning: a couple of weeks after shele's death, her family took their private investigator over to her apartment to ch