richard landers, jr., has been living in minnesota. investigators say landers' paternal grandparents didn't want the courts to award custody to his mother so they abducted him back in 1994. last september, investigators tracked landers down through his social security number. >> the young man living in the state of minnesota actually was using the social security number but what was really interesting is that doing further checking on his personal logs had the same date of birth as the missing boy. >> the grandparents were charged with a felony in 1999 but that was dropped after the case went cold. now the statute of limitations has expired and charges can't be filed. meanwhile landers is now 24 and married. >>> some breaking news in the north bay we're following. there's a major crime scene in a in redskin neighborhood. cbs 5 reporter cate caugiran is gathering information right now at the scene and we'll have the latest coming up. >>> 4:37. president obama will discuss the withdrawal of u.s. troops from afghanistan with president ham

landers now 24 and married is expecting his first child. authorities declined to say whether the grandparents will be charged. >>> federal health officials want the manufacturers of sleeping pill medications to cut the dosage of the drugs. the request follows hundreds of reports with driver-related problems connected with the chemicals in sleeping pills. teresa garcia reports. >> reporter: people who tame ambien or sleeping pills will soon be ingesting lower doses. the food and drug administration is ordering drug companies to cut the dosage in half for women. the move is based on new research that shows the higher dose can cause morning ging drowsiness, which can lead to car accidents. >> at 7:00 or so in the morning there are still leftover chemicals that leave you drowsy. >> reporter: robert kennedy's daughter was in an accident last year. she hit a trailer. she had a chemical that ambien has. the fda is also recommending lowering the doses for men, but it won't be mandatory. millions of americans take ambien and other drugs to treat the

. >> reporter: 24-year-old richard landers jr. just received a bombshell. police say his grandparents, who reportedly raised him nearly all his life, actually abducted him when he was just 5 years old. >> until i actually get to walk up and say hello to him again, i don't know that it's going to be real. >> reporter: his father, richard landers sr., is shocked. his mother, apparently was jumping for joy, when she learned her little boy, not so little anymore, was out there, alive and well, now married, and expecting a child of his own. landers incredible story started two decades ago, after his parents went through a bitter divorce. his mother, reportedly living in a car. police say his paternal grandparents, unhappy with the custody proceedings, took him from his home in wolcottville, indiana, brought him 675 miles away, to long prairie, minnesota. police say all three changed their names. but forgot richard's social security number. that's how police finally tracked him down. >> young man living in the state of minnesota, was using that social security nu

her sister app landers died in 2002. they gave great advice through their years and we will miss them. >> bob: did they talk to each other in >> dana: they did. they reconciled later in life. like maybe we will do later. conrad baine, phillip drummond. we have a s.o.t. >> go to the beach and the mountains and stuff ourselves and have the greatest time any family ever had. i tonight care what it costs -- i don't care what it costs. >> we're in a lot of trouble. >> dana: wonderful actor. we will miss him. >> kimberly: i don't want to do the story. that's it for us. bye. thank you for watching. >>> i'm greg gutfeld or as i am known in nashville, taylor swift. filling in is jedediah bila. she has the pre game report. what is coming up on tonight's show? >> our top story tonight was manti te'o the victim of a cruel hoax or a schemer hungry for publicity who never thought he would get caught? and who inverchted the -- and who invented the name of lennay-kikkua. and they spent $222,000 renovating a secretary's bathroom. but if

anne landers died in 2002. >> who died now? i apologize to the family forgetting them confused. >> are you landers? >> it is the landers twins. >> dear abbie and anne lande rz are two people. >> did you know about the san francisco twins. >> the identical twins. >> we need to talk about toilet paper. something important is happening. >> big story. >> we need to talk about frozen toilet paper. are you listening to me? >> i am trying to talk about a really important news story here about frozen toilet paper and how it affects the hiney and no one is listening to me. you spent an entire segment talking about frozen toilet paper. i have to say, bill, you know on that point you are talking about how frozen toilet paper is a nice, cold compress. i would disagree. i don't like anything cold on my hiney. i am uncomfortable with that. >> i like hearing you say the word hiney and i ask you to do it again. >> is there a clever name for a frozen toilet paper? >> it is not frozen. it is cold. if it was frozen it would be terrible. >> well,

this is richard wayne landers jr., as a 5-year-old. he is now 24.anders was taken away by his grandparents who were upset over a custody fight. no word yet whether those grandparents will be prosecuted. >>> and in sports this morning, nhl players have until tomorrow morning to approve a new labor deal that would end the current lockout. as for last night's hoops highlights, here's espn. >> doug kezirian with your "sportscenter" update. we start in the nba, with the knicks playing without the suspended carmelo anthony. colt coach chuck pagano, standing ovation. chuck strong in the nfl. j.r. smith, monster jam. 2 of his 25. although, the knicks muster just 34 points in the first half. later, amare stoudamire, the left-handed scoop to go. knicks are down one. now, it's a nine-point deficit in the third quarter. paul george, one of his six steals. monster throwdown. indiana up double digits. later, more from george. 24 points, 11 rebounds, 5 assists. pacers have won nine-straight at home. >>> go to college ranks. oregon, riding a ten-game home win strea

of the public the basel committee of central bankers has loosened the rules while trying to prop landers up against any future crises are all over the reports it's the way the decisions are made it's raising most questions. have you ever heard the wall about the bank is the billions and bars all the chances are you probably haven't but six times a year central bank heads from the u.s. europe asia and everywhere in between representing around three quarters of global economic output gather in the swiss city to talk shop behind closed doors i personally also don't like these secretive meetings because. you never know what in effect. is discussed in these meetings it's something that has a tradition that's put there play i mean bankers have always talked to each other in a more secretive way the whole business of banking is not really built on transparency but rather on trust and confidentiality the continuing global financial crisis has seen the banking sector firmly in the spotlight with more than a few accusing fingers pointed in the direction of bankers it's the job of the secretive bar

his dad, richard landers sr.ays a reunion would be surreal. >> we always just kept it in the back of our minds that we believe we was going to see him again. until i actually get to walk up and say hello to him again i don't know that it's going to be real. >> no word yet on if and when that reunion will pap happen. meanwhile the minnesota sheriff says the case will eventually be forwarded to federal prosecutors for possible charges against the grand patience. new concerns about the future of air travel. after a very bumpy rough week for boeing's newest aircraft the 787 dream liner. one of their planes caught fire. another had a fuel leak. now federal regulators want a review of the design, manufacture and assembly of the 200-million-dollar aircraft. there are questions about weather there will be an economic fallout. take a look. boeing stock closing down yesterday. at 75:16. one point our colleagues at fox business network were watching the dow jones overall take a dip. mostly because of the reaction by investo

richard wayne landers, jr., has been living in minnesota and investigators say landers' paternal grandparents courts to award custody to his mother so they abducted him. last september he was tracked down through his social security number. >> the young man living in the state of minnesota actually was using his social security number but what was really interesting was that doing further checking on his personal logs he had the same date of birth as the boy who was listed as missing in 1994. >> the grandparents were charged with a felony in 1999, but that was dropped after the case went cold. investigators say they can't file charges now because the statute of limitations has expired. meanwhile, landers is now 24 and married. >>> bart police say they caught a serial bike bandit. 57-year-old marque moore a felon on parole was convicted of stealing stations at bart stations. stolen items were found at his home. he was caught with the help of one of his victims. >> he had seen his stolen bicycle on craigslist so he agreed to meet with the suspect at our ashby bart station. so he gave bart polic

think of richard landers now living at michael landers. is he 24 years old. we don't know whether his grandparents told him his mother was deader alive. we don't know what he said about the situation in which he grew up. he also now has his own family to think about. he is married and has -- is expecting his first child. so one of the cops in indiana says a reunion may be a while yet. listen. >> as far as i know, there is no real plans in the works for any kind of a reunion at this point. but, again, it's still very early because this bombshell was just dropped on this young man here within the last couple of days. probably going to take time to digest and work those things out. >> now, we spoke to the mother's attorney today. he told us that she is trying to figure out a way to contact her son and clearly everybody here understands that there is a whole lot of emotions involved, shep. >> shepard: there must be, jonathan, thank you. an explosion leveled a home today, hurt at least three people, including two firefighters. look at what's left of the house outs

competeedin the adviceefield with her identical twin sister esther pauline-- better known as columnnit "ann landers their dueling careers put a strain on their relationship.in 1990, it takes to be a good columnist.you have to eel for people. you have to want to help peoole. that's tte best part abbut being dear abby. i love being able to help people. if someone writee in to say abby.. you changed my me that nobody else could do. she wrote about the angry letters she received from pcccpttnce of hooosexuality-- - at a timeewhen there wasnnt times when she'd reach out personally toopeople who were troubled.phillips was known for her sometimes pithy resppnses... like the time "ted" asked her what innpires youumost to write.. and she answered.. the bureau of internal revenne. but kyra phillips of cnn's sisterr station hln says money was far from the goal..she met paulinn phillips.. who's not reeated.. when sse was in colllge and the "dear abby" columnist became a mentor. thii was not fake. this was not a schtick. thhs wwsn't a hmm... what can i do to make a lot of mooey? this was real. she went to schoo

phillips' twin sister ann landers died in 2002. >> have you of ver wanted a single or five from the atm? we'll tell you which banks are rolling out new machines that will give you exactly the amount you're looking for. >> plus, phone calls through facebook? there's an app for that. >> and you're looking at penn station. just kidding. this is roanoke, have va -- virginia. we'll have much more straight ahead. >>> lots of green today. the dow is up, nasdaq is up and the s&p 500 is up. >>> the days of withdrawing too much cash from the atm could soon be over. that's right. it could be dispensing one and five dollar bills. chase and p.d nc are roling out -- pnc are rolling out new machines. there may be an atm dispensing coins. the machines are free for chase and pnc customers and out of network fees do ally to noncustomers. >>> you can now make free calls on your iphone through the messaging app. it allows you to call someone else but you are using your data plan instead of your minutes. your phone won't ring, though if you get a facebook message call. it just shows up as a notification. >>

his grandparents, richard ruth landers raised him since he was born.er was never in part of his life. but his mother was trying to get visitation. the grandparents took 5-year-old richard and disappeared without a trace from their home in wilcox vil, indiana. years of searching turned up absolutely nothing. in september, everything changed when the missing stepfather gave the boy's social security card to the indiana state police. that led to discovery of a man with same social security number living 567 miles away in long prairie, minneapolis. at lost last the search was over. >> the family has been grieving nonstop last 18 years. they have not been giving up hope and giving tidbits to the investigators. we want to close those case files. there are a lot of happy law enforcement officials in la grange county right now. >> reporter: the grandparents who authorities say abducted the boy were living in minnesota. criminal charges against them were dropped years ago after the case went cold. martha? martha: what has reaction been, david lee, to finally lo

landers now married and expecting his first child. his mother is said to be jumping up and down with joy. quite literally. what a relief. >> well passengers i'm sorry crashing his car into a pizza shop wasn't a good enough reason for one nebraska man to skip lunch. employee at this store said elderly driver asked him if he could order a pizza while he waited for an emergency crew to arrive. he was hungry. apparently the man foot got stuck on the gas. no one got hurt. don't know if he got the peter. >> passengers on a qantas airliner saw something very unusual today. snake on the plane. literally snake on the plane. watch what we show you here. 10 foot python was holding on for dear life to the wing while the wind whipped at it. cell phone camera capture the whole thing. that's it. it's wiggling there. how the python slithered on to the plane is a guess. snake held on for the entire two hour flight to new guinea. it was dead on arrival however but did it manage to hang on. wild. >>> as we continue here tonight on 7 news at 9:00. abc ne

richard landers jr. was kidnapped in indiana during a custody dispute when he was just 5.randparents were charged with interference of custody at the time. but the charge was dismissed in 2008. after that the case went cold. landers, now 24 years old, was found living in long prairie, minnesota, under a different name. he's married now and he is expecting his first child. they are work iing to reunite h with his mother. >> still ahead here at 6:00, the tale of famed san francisco twins. they're known for their charm and those great matching outfits. tonight the city is mourning one of its most recognizable residents. >>> and as we continue our countdown to the big game, 49ers coach jim harbaugh sits down with us. what he's say iing about the infamous quarterback battle and some of the biggest names on the team. >>> and good evening on this friday. i'm chief jeff ranieri. temperatures are dropping right now and it's going to be an easy plummet after starting off in the 20s this morning,s one of the coldest. fair field at 26. do expect some sun and clouds on your saturday. s

a green toyota hi lander andean toyota cam i are. >> you're currented about them because you never knowho that could happen too. >> our current in this case is in f these suspects decide to do another crime like this they escalate their violent behavior and perhaps injure or kill somebody. >>> someone beat up and elderly man and stole his car. he's expected to be okay and his car found abandon. >>> officials add call state university say they need a lot more money. governor jerry brown indicated that probably won't happen. call state figures it willerer $250 million more than it's currently proposed for the next academic year. the governor warden it would be tough to get that extra money. calling it more of a dream than reality. brown has already agreed to an extra $125 million with the condition cal state does not raise tuition. >>> the bay area largest state college teeters on the us own fiscal cliff. ahead the new doomsday plan that may include teacher lay you haves. >>> and president obama and the first lady attended the national player this was -- this morning. 2000 guests joined t

her first column appeared in 1956 and competed for decades with her twin sister, ann landers.he passed in 2002. >>> fewer people are dying from cancer each year. a new report from the american cancer society found the overall cancer death rate drops 20% from 1991 to 2009. a reduction in smoking and better detech shup methods are to thank. >>> the federal government is encouraging mothers to breastfeed. new regulations will require insurance companies to cover the cost of breast pumps. an improvement for moms who say they need all the help they can get. >> insurance companies are still working out the details and trying to align venders and patient services and how they're going to meet that need. >> no small feat. it costs more than $1,000 for hospital grade pumps. taxpayers will foot the rental fee. some insurers are offering to pay for lighter, less expensive consumer models. >> your height could matter more in your love life than your thought. research has shown most men prefer to be with women shorter and women prefer taller men. a study of 10,000 couples in the uk shows t

her column competed with the column ann landers, written by her twin sister. >> reporter: fixing the uc budget. the high-tech way the state says it can reach more students. >>> another cold morning. but ktvu meteorologist mark tamayo will be here to tell you about warmer temperatures and your weekend forecast. >>> health information of your favorite san francisco restaurant will soon be easier to access in a new announcement from the mayor. Ñç5xñóÑmñz?cç?çÑkÑkÑe- >>> the third and final way of the uc regents meeting is underway. sal castanedo is live to explain the big focus of the meeting today. good afternoon, sal. >> reporter: good afternoon, tori. this is the last day. and one of the ideas that has emerged from the meeting is starting more online education. 10% of the general education requirements in the future could be set up on some online academy that the university is using here wants to set up. governor jerry brown, a regent himself and a graduate of uc berkeley says he likes the idea and has submitted -- committed $10 million from the state budget to help the university ad

>> well, actually, it was her sister, ann landers, who really started it.the original heloise was also a twin. >> really? >> yes. and her sister, after my mother became a zenith with her books and tv shows her sister said, i think i'll start a column. my mother said, no, you will not. and they didn't talk for about three or four years. >> isn't that interesting? >> yeah. >> wow. something in the blood there. >> yes. >> we're happy you took over and are helping us with our every day lives. let's talk about the inauguration. >> yes. >> this is a big event. and a lot of folks, hundreds of thousands will head out to the mall. ideas what to take and shouldn't take. >> no backpacks. no umbrellas. no big bags. no big -- no big bags, ladies. not the kind, like a suitcase. smaller bags. think about, pretend that you're going on a trip, and you can't go home. so you need to take with you things that you're going to use, but also in miniature sizes. particularly for women, please, please, please, i do this, take a newspaper, spread it on the floor, dump out your purse

this is in la lander school, the story is in karen chronicled it in a tab you have there. well this school, there are somal bonn there and tsom some,al b al ban they're and th attacked and tried kill people that came to school. the taliban. the headmaster peddled his bicycle 30 miles to the commander leader and he had two daughters going to another school. he got very upset and came in with 120 militia and did kill onal ban and wounded one and arrested the 12 dozen others and found out they had gotten 200,000, 3,000, $100 to shut down the school from the mulla in the village. they went to his house and arrested him and they're a waiting trial in kabul and will probably get 6 - 8 years. two days later think did open up the school and even had another inauguration for the school because they said we want our kids to go to school. there are about 18 schools - she's got the facts. there's 18 girls that are not going to school and we set up what's called displaced girls school but the rest of the kid have come back here and i think if if quest we can give those k the support th

some confused her with her twin sister, ann landers, also an advice columnist.oth helped raise awareness about social issues. in 2000, phillips started to share the column with her daughter. soon after, it was revealed phillips had alzheimer's. today, her daughter jeannie who took over the column said my mother leaves very high heels to fill with a legacy of compassion. asked years ago, has it been a lot of work? not really, phillips said, it's only work if you would rather be doing something else. rehema ellis, nbc news, new york. >>> and that's our broadcast on our thurig.lusive rview with the most famous scientologist to ever leave the church, and a book that investigates life inside the controversial religion. that's our all-new "rock center," tonight at 10:00, 9:00 central. i'm brian williams. we sure hope to have you back here tomorrow evening. good night.

the other is a 2007 green toyota high lander and it's license plate is 5xiu520. at last word, the couple is doing okay. the police department's robbery unit has taken over the investigation. >>> san francisco police are hoping a distinct surveillance video will help lead them to a pair of bank robbers. the suspects held employees at gunpoint was clearly visible wearing a black orlando magic baseball hat and a striped button up shirt. the accomplice guarded the entrance while he stole the money. it happened on the 600 block of gary boulevard. the two got away in a dark colored vehicle. >>> a special community meeting being held and set up to talk about arming some san francisco police officers with tasers. chief greg sir wants to give about 100 officers those weapons in conjunction with new training on how to deal with mentally ill suspects. sir first introduced that proposal after an officer shot and killed a man armed carrying a box cutter last year. opponents of the plan say even though tasers are considered non lethal, they can be deadly. the sfpd not currentl

as her "dear abby" grew, she competed in the advice field with her identical twin sister, aka ann landers. phillips died at the age of 94 after a long battle with alzheimer's. she once said, quote, wisdom doesn't automatically come with old age. nothing does except wrinkles. >> we can attest to that, can't we, dennis? >> i don't see it, not at all. >> makeup. yes, indeed. >>> tiger woods, you guys did that story on lance armstrong. you know tiger lost all those endorsements. well, he's getting some back. you will hear why the key to beating the falcons might not be colin kaepernick. we'll hear from the experts, next. sents real big deals of the week. or why it doesn't have to be an adventure to stick o your new year's budget. because safeway gives you real big club card deals each week. right now, a case of arrowhead water is just $3.33. folgers is $7.99 for the large size. that's a huge deal. rise and shine. simply orange oj is just $2.88. real big deals this week and every week. only at safeway. ingredients for life. it's time to make room for the new mattress models but sleep train's h

for years, she completed with her twin sister, advice columnist ann landers. friedman phillips was 92 years old. >>> a group of men have quite a story to tell. they were part of the inauguration in 1949 when harry truman took office. >> reporter: these three guys have some stories to tell. they didn't just witness history. they were part of it. >> we were there because we were -- had to be there. >> reporter: they joke a lot but this was serious business n1949, gray parks and scott shipe were west point cadets. >> i harry s. truman do solemnly swear. >> reporter: they took a train to union station for president truman's inauguration and even marched in the parade. jim upp was a 16-year-old d.c. boy scout assigned the duty of helping to line the inaugural parade route. >> you had the best eye view of the whole parade as it came by. >> reporter: it is interesting that all three of these men who participated in the 1949 inauguration are now neighbors. they all live here at the green spring retirement community in springfield. they all remember it being quite cold

the number of troops deployed to mali to two thousand five hundred as part of the preparation for a lander sold it was to dislodge islamist extremists occupying the largest source of the country so despite a six day campaign of french aerial bombardments mali rebels have extended their reach the u.s. is also assisting paris in its operation but many of those who are now fighting the mahdi government and the western forces were reportedly trained by american agents as part of a costly program to combat terrorism and africa expert lawrence freeman explained to us what's gone wrong as well as how have things the mali crisis resulted from western intervention in libya by leaving. you have several ways of this operation i mean first of all you have after the assassination murder of president darcy you had basically within hours to really. no merit in the other stream you caused the border with pickup trucks military hardware. but you've also had the failed attempt by the u.s. to so-called true partners in mali and other african countries. these new units military units just very very quickly an

as her "dear abby" grew, she competed in the advice field with her identical twin sister, aka ann landershillips died at the age of 94 after a long battle with alzheimer's. she once said, quote, wisdom doesn't automatically come with old age. nothing does except wrinkles. >> we can attest to that, can't we, dennis? >> i don't see it, not at all. >> makeup. yes, indeed. >>> tiger woods, you guys did that story on lance armstrong. you know tiger lost all those endorsements. well, he's getting some back. you will hear why the key to beating the falcons might not lucky charms?! ♪ ♪ yer always after me lucky charms! whoa. i forgot how good these taste! [ lucky ] ♪ they're magically delicious ♪ [ female announcer ] there's surprising news about whole grain. now all general mills big g kid cereals have more whole grain than any other ingredient in cereals like lucky charms and cinnamon toast crunch, the delicious way to help them grow up strong. before cold & flu season help prevent with lysol disinfectant spray. and use the lysol no touch hand soap for 10 times more protection with each wash. t

dear abby and ann landers -- really the friedman sisters of sioux city, iowa -- would go on to be rivalsthe rest of their careers. her frank advice was sometimes shocking in its day. 1970. dear abby, recently our 21-year-old daughter came out to us and told us she was in love with another girl. dear mother, if your daughter is happy with what she is, then you who profess to love her must accept her as she is or not at all. dear abby changed with the times and helped america change, too. david wright, abc news, los angeles. >> always enjoyed reading that column as a young, like, teenager. you never knew what you were going to find. >> before facebook. before the internet. that's where we found our.

authorities say that richard wayne landers jr.ucted by his paternal grandparents back in skwrufl 1994. they raised him since he was born. the boy's father was never a part of his wife. his mother who was developmentally disabled wanted him back. on the very day a court gave her custody the grandparents disappeared without a trace from their indiana home. they didn't feel the mother was capable of raising her son. years of searching turned up nothing, but in september everything changed when the boy's stepfather gave the boy a social security card to the indiana state police. that led to the discovery of a man with the same social security number living 567 miles away in long prairie, minnesota. the search was finally over. >> he's got a family out there that's really been grieving nonstop for the last 18 years, and they've not given up hope, they've not given upbringing in any tidbits of information to investigators. we want to be able to close those case files. i can tell i right now that there are a lot of happy law enforcement

reporter: she was often confused with her twin sister who wrote her own column under the name ann landersheir rivalry drove them apart. as young adults though they grew close again in later life perhaps following their own vice. >> knowing the right thing to do is incentive. all we need to do is have someone give us the push in the right direction. >> reporter: every letter with a self-addressed envelope received a reply. >> here's a man who wrote me in care of the milwaukee sentinel. his wife doesn't understand him but his bookkeeper does. >> reporter: she continued looking at hundreds of letters day into her 70s eventually sharing the writing the column with her daughter. >> what's your key? >> key is giving to real happiness. if you aren't giving you aren't living. >> reporter: fear less, hope more, eat less, chew more, talk less say more, hate less, love more. jim axelrod, cbs news, new york. >>> coming up after your local news on "cbs this morning," reaction to lance armstrong's interview with oprah winfrey last night. we'll hear from one of armstrong armstrong's former teammates. >>

in 1994 richard landers jr. was taken during a custody battle when he was 5 years old. his paternal grandparents were charged but the charges were dismissed after the case went cold. he was living under a different name but the same social security number in a small town in minnesota. he's now married and expecting his first child. the family is trying to set up a reunion. no word if his grandparents face any charges. >>> relatives of people killed in a plane crash with mexican-american singer jenny rivera are skewing her company. they say she was negligent when she hired a faulty learjet that went down killing five passengers. investigators have still not said what caused the crash. the lawsuit says her company should have known the plane was not safe to fly. it also claims the pilots did not have enough training to safely fly the plane. >>> right now, firefighters are trying to stop raging wildfires from destroying more homes in new zealand. the flames forced several families to evacuate their neighborhoods. a wildfire charred some 370 acres of land in the city of chr

reporter: she was often confused with her twin sister who wrote her own column under the name anne landerse rivalry drove them apart as young adults, though they grew close again in later life, perhaps following their own advice. >> knowing the right thing to do is instinctive. all we need is someone to give us a push in the right direction. >> reporter: every letter sent with a self-addressed stamped envelope received a reply. >> here's from a man who wrote me care of the milwaukee pent nel. his wife doesn't understand him but his bookkeeper does. >> she continued looking at hundreds of letters a day into her 70ss eventually sharing the writing of the column with her daughter. >> what do you consider the formula for live. >> giving i believe is the key to real happiness because, ed, if you aren't giving you aren't living. >> reporter: tonight her friends and family are remembering dear abbey with a piece of her advice. >> fear less, hope more, eat less, chew more, talk less, say more, hate less, love more. jim axelrod, cbs news, new york. >> pelley: and that's the cbs evening news for ton

dear abby and ann landers -- really the friedman sisters of sioux city, iowa -- would go on to be rivalsst of their careers. her frank advice was sometimes shocking in its day. 1970. dear abby, recently our 21-year-old daughter came out to us and told us she was in love with another girl. dear mother, if your daughter is happy with what she is, then you who profess to love her must accept her as she is or not at all. dear abby changed with the times and helped america change, too. david wright, abc news, los angeles. >> and she had a rule to live by. she said it in 1964, simple. the purpose of life is to amount to something and have it make some difference that you lived at all. we thank you for watching. we're always working to bring you the latest at abcnews.com. and "nightline" at its later, new time tonight, 12:35 a.m. talk to you tomorrow. >>> on "the list," energy drinks landing peop

police are looking for the couple's 1997 tan toyota camry and a 2007 green toyota high lander. here are the license plates for the camera. and for the highlander. if you've seen these cars, please call san jose police. we're live in san jose tonight. >> thank you, george. >>> certainly the place to be tonight, the president and the first lady attending two inaugural balls. some 40,000 got a piece to share in that historic night. ♪ times or good or bad happy or sad ♪ >> the president and the first lady getting their groove on, sharing the first dance of a second term. there were performances by stevie wonder, alicia keys -- prior to that first dance, the president praised mrs. obama. >> i said today at the lunch that some may dispute the quall ty of our president, but nobody disputes the quality of our first lady. >> now, despite the lavish look of the night, it was a scaled down event. there were ten official balls following the president's historic election in 2008. this time around, only two. a nod to the struggling economy. president clinton, by the way, holds the record off

and diffusing other families' family feuds she had less luck calming the water with her sister ann landers though the two eventually reconciled and even joked together in public >> what do you like to do when you're together? >> talk, talk, talk and eat reporter: since 2002 the dear abby column has been written by paul even phillips' daughter jeanne who said this week my mother leaves very big high heels to fill. paul even phillips abigail van buren was 94. mo rocca travels back in history. >> this has been call one of the best preserved presidential sites in the country. >> osgood: next. could tons steution mandates that the president is sworn in at noon on the 20th day of january. but nine men have assumed the nation's highest office with little or no advanced warning. >> from dallas, texas, president kennedy died at 1:00 p.m. central standard time. >> reporter: lyndon johnson took the oath aboard air force one after the murder of president kennedy in dallas. johnson placed his hand on kennedy's catholic missile or prayer book perhaps mistaking it for a bible >> i do gerald r. ford to so