hello, this is a podcast ask surkova, i larisa surkova, psychologist and mother of seven children. today anastasia came to ask me, hello, hello, what brought you here, tell me, lately it has begun to seem that the children devalue everything that my husband and i do for them. yeah, so, the girl is a minute older, appropriate, like an older sister, now they are already graduating. from kindergarten, and we are getting ready for first grade, yeah, yeah, lately these problems with discipline have begun, it feels like i can't come to an agreement with my own children, yeah, can you remember some recent story, wow, this has become very common with construction sets, that is , a construction set, well, in my opinion, it's that thing, you get this set, put it together, enjoy it, tidy it up. then you take it out and play, here they immediately bring it, unpack it, tear it up, throw it around, lose everything, buy a new one, and what measures have you already taken? i collected the entire construction set in one bag, and i said that you will receive it in a week and you will take it apart y