. >> today we have single dad dr., a new addition larry burchett. larry's chuck and still engaged, single -- so sad -- bob guinea. the questions from across the street. >> not many years, i hope, bob. >> i hope not. >> hi. i'm tara from louisiana, and my question is -- how do men feel about paying or picking up the tab on on the dates? >> oh, all the dates? >> i'm going to jump -- and every man's going hate me, but i have a 16-year-old daughter, and one rule. don't you go in your pocket for anything. >> amen. >> period. that's all there is to it. if i ever catch you going in your pocket andpulling out my money! >> i feel you can yell at your daughter privately. not in front of 1 million people. i disagree strongly. i don't mind paying, but got to reach for the -- make the effort. girls on a da reach for the check. i'm happy to pay, but can you pretend for a second you're going to pay? >> do you want a phony? >> i like a phony person. >> a tremendous amount of dating in my life and a lot of marrying, but i got to say, i actually insist. if i have my,