. >> when there was this new boyfriend, a guy by the name of larry vanner.e him to her family, but right away it doesn't go well. >> i opened the door and saw his face. i had a chill run down by back that i've never in my life ever had before. and he stuck out his hand to shake my hand, and i saw the long dirty fingernails that just creeped me out. >> larry would just grab and gobble up everything on the table. and belch and eat more. and then he'd go sit on the couch, and i'd just shake my head. >> just a few months later, eunsoon was becoming more and more estranged from her family and also her friends. [ phone ringing ] rose would call the house, and larry would make a different excuse each time for why eunsoon wasn't there. >> he would say, well she's busy taking care of her mother. or she was going to get some therapeutic help. he would say, she decided she didn't like me anymore and didn't want me in her life. who could believe him for one second? >> rose ultimately grew quite suspicious of that. that she issued an ultimatum to larry. >> i want eunsoon