. >> but for some real dish we sent lauren zima to meet the software salesman. >> what are your turn-ones? >> i think it's really sexy when a girl can dress down and still look really good. i'm talking jeans and -- >> what is the biggest challenge about dating you? >> i think i'm a lot to keep up with. i like a good fight. >> what physical feature are you least confident about? >> my shoulders a little narrow. i don't know. my nose may be a little crooked. >> fans of the "the bachelor" franchise certainly remember emily maynard. her story tugged at all of our hearts because an unbelievable tragedy struck when emily was just 18 years old. we visited her at home in charlotte, north carolina where she has been able to find love and happiness once again. >> just having a baby three months ago. >> the third has been the hardest adjustment i'd say. they're 14 months apart. jennings took his first like consecutive ten steps in the hospital. like right after i had had gibson, the day i went to the hospital, he like starts walking. i'm like, no, i'm not ready. >> life after "the bachelorette" is b