there are a lot of things you can do, but that is the yeah, that's the idea i just saw lenore skenazy here is and want to get back to the to play lenore is the founder of let grow is a great organization that is trying to bring freedom free. and thank you. so if interested in more on that subject look up let grow. let's talk about the rise of social emotional learning. you document how this permeates our classrooms. it's not something outside of curriculum. it's being put into the curriculum what is this do you know how this started? and once how did it spread all over the whole country and tell us what a bones and no bones day is so i think it about 15 years ago and again like a lot of things that aren't actually good and have some harmful it started out you know potentially with with good intentions. some people dispute that by the way. but but i give a general to try to give things the benefit of the doubt. and a lot of people who bought into it, i think, had good intentions. and the idea is we're going to teach you how to emotionally regulate a series of classes. but this is for k