. >> i worry about these young men likeomen, because, sort of what you wish for comes true and a lotf them are not psychologically, emotionally prepared and this is how they end up there in the first place. that is why the rate of recidivism is so high. what kind of skills did you get while you were there, what did you learn beside patience and tolerance? theml sorry for a lot of because what kind of world are they going to? people with phd's and masters degrees cannot find it job. i do with one component of that. -- deal with one component of that. do not get me started. tavis: this takes me back to the we are talking about the grandmothers who have to navigate this second shift raising grandkids. you talk about their concerns, bj and other persons like her. what about the children that she is raising, how will they turn out when they are raised by grandparents who oftentimes do not understand what they are up against, kids are slicker now, they are smarter, they have access to technology. these grandparents are raising thatwho live in a world they could not imagine. >> there are ba