these criticisms have offended many religion leaders, among them the reverend lillian daniel, who has a book out this month, called "when spiritual but not religious is not enough." full disclosure -- i wrote a blurb for the cover. at the first congregational church in glen ellyn, illinois, an upscale suburb of chicago, lillian daniel is the senior minister. she says she's had enough of outsiders who bash the church and of church people who don't protest. so she is pushing back herself, in a new book, in articles, and in sermons she preaches as a guest minister around the country. at howard university in washington, d.c., recently, daniel railed at writers and others who, she says, have blamed the church for many of the world's biggest problems. >> what church community are you describing? because it is not mine. and how dare you presume to paint me with that broad and offensive brush? so why is it that when the spiritual but not religious complain about christianity, why don't we get mad? why don't we tell them a different story, of a progressive church where your questions are welco